No More Scooby-Doo!
Well, it has finally happened... Caitrin has fear... First she was afraid of the Pirates at Auntie Sara's house, then, she was "afraid of everything (according to her)." And what is it she is afraid of these days? Ghosts!
I can't really figure out how she even knows about ghosts. Maybe from Halloween, but I doubt it. Ghosts weren't anything we talked about back on my favorite holiday. I wouldn't have wanted her to be afraid. Maybe from the Haunted Mansion ride at Disney. My more likely answer though is from good old Scooby-Doo.
Now, don't get me wrong... Caitrin's TV viewing is VERY, VERY limited. She gets maybe 1 hour of TV a day, give or take a Signing Time DVD.
(For those of you that aren't familiar, you need to check these videos out. They are amazing. I can't even begin to tell you how much I LOVE Rachel, Alex, and Leah. Caitrin is talking up a storm, recognizes most of her letters, and can sign an ever expanding amount of words. And it is fun to learn with her. http://www.signingtime.com/ )
We have our normal after nap routine... she gets up, goes potty, and then settles on the couch for her half hour of Curious George on PBS. And while I'm fixing her dinner, I was letting her watch Scooby-Doo on the Cartoon Network. Now, I remember loving the show when I was little. Granted, I was not 2. I also remember thinking that the show was a little scary, or at least suspenseful. I also thought that Fred was kind of cute, which is really strange to me now, being that he is a cartoon and all, and that I wanted to be Daphne, Patty was Velma, and poor Amy was Scrappy-Doo...
Anyways....
So bedtime rolls around and she gets in her pajamas and settles into bed. We read a few books, and then I sing a few little songs to her/ with her ... "Good Night Baby," "You are my Sunshine," "She'll be coming 'round the Mountain..." I turn on her Signing Time or Baby Signing Time CD's and her Tinkerbell night light. At this time she is telling me over and over, "Don't turn off the lights, mama." "Don't shut my door, mama." "Don't leave me, mama." She then says that she is scared. And when we talk about it, she says she is scared of ghosts.
Now, we have been having this conversation for a few nights and she then says, "No ghosts, only on Scooby-Doo." This is what I have been telling her, so she's got it in her head. (It worked with the Pirate fear... no pirates at Aunt Sara's house except on Halloween.)
Because I'm me, I did a bit of research and I know that at her age fear of separation from her parents is perfectly normal. It doesn't surprise me that she might be fearful of this, since she is rarely without one of us (but we're working on this!). Also, I found that most fear in 2 year olds is caused by loud noises (which could explain why her favorite phrase is, "what's that noise?"). Other common fears include fear of the dark, a bath, thunder and lightning, toilet training, animals, doctors, and strangers.
So she's perfectly normal, I know. But it kills me to think that this ghost thing was from something she saw on TV. I know I can't protect her from everything, but she's only 2. I want to protect her from as much as possible. I don't want her to even think about monsters at this point in time. I'd rather her be scared of a good rainstorm, than from some ghost she saw on a cartoon. So we made a deal last week... No more Scooby-Doo.
She asked for him today after Curious George, and then she reminded herself, "Too scary." So she strung some beads at the kitchen table instead until dinner was ready.
Hopefully this crying before bedtime bit won't last too long. It breaks my heart a little bit every time I have to leave her there in her bed. Caitrin and I have also compromised on leaving her door open. She whimpers for a few seconds once I walk away, but by the time I get to the end of the hall, she's quiet. And it is the last I hear of her until I check on her before I go to bed.
And then, she's my little sleeping angel.
Well, it has finally happened... Caitrin has fear... First she was afraid of the Pirates at Auntie Sara's house, then, she was "afraid of everything (according to her)." And what is it she is afraid of these days? Ghosts!
I can't really figure out how she even knows about ghosts. Maybe from Halloween, but I doubt it. Ghosts weren't anything we talked about back on my favorite holiday. I wouldn't have wanted her to be afraid. Maybe from the Haunted Mansion ride at Disney. My more likely answer though is from good old Scooby-Doo.
Now, don't get me wrong... Caitrin's TV viewing is VERY, VERY limited. She gets maybe 1 hour of TV a day, give or take a Signing Time DVD.
(For those of you that aren't familiar, you need to check these videos out. They are amazing. I can't even begin to tell you how much I LOVE Rachel, Alex, and Leah. Caitrin is talking up a storm, recognizes most of her letters, and can sign an ever expanding amount of words. And it is fun to learn with her. http://www.signingtime.com/ )
We have our normal after nap routine... she gets up, goes potty, and then settles on the couch for her half hour of Curious George on PBS. And while I'm fixing her dinner, I was letting her watch Scooby-Doo on the Cartoon Network. Now, I remember loving the show when I was little. Granted, I was not 2. I also remember thinking that the show was a little scary, or at least suspenseful. I also thought that Fred was kind of cute, which is really strange to me now, being that he is a cartoon and all, and that I wanted to be Daphne, Patty was Velma, and poor Amy was Scrappy-Doo...
Anyways....
So bedtime rolls around and she gets in her pajamas and settles into bed. We read a few books, and then I sing a few little songs to her/ with her ... "Good Night Baby," "You are my Sunshine," "She'll be coming 'round the Mountain..." I turn on her Signing Time or Baby Signing Time CD's and her Tinkerbell night light. At this time she is telling me over and over, "Don't turn off the lights, mama." "Don't shut my door, mama." "Don't leave me, mama." She then says that she is scared. And when we talk about it, she says she is scared of ghosts.
Now, we have been having this conversation for a few nights and she then says, "No ghosts, only on Scooby-Doo." This is what I have been telling her, so she's got it in her head. (It worked with the Pirate fear... no pirates at Aunt Sara's house except on Halloween.)
Because I'm me, I did a bit of research and I know that at her age fear of separation from her parents is perfectly normal. It doesn't surprise me that she might be fearful of this, since she is rarely without one of us (but we're working on this!). Also, I found that most fear in 2 year olds is caused by loud noises (which could explain why her favorite phrase is, "what's that noise?"). Other common fears include fear of the dark, a bath, thunder and lightning, toilet training, animals, doctors, and strangers.
So she's perfectly normal, I know. But it kills me to think that this ghost thing was from something she saw on TV. I know I can't protect her from everything, but she's only 2. I want to protect her from as much as possible. I don't want her to even think about monsters at this point in time. I'd rather her be scared of a good rainstorm, than from some ghost she saw on a cartoon. So we made a deal last week... No more Scooby-Doo.
She asked for him today after Curious George, and then she reminded herself, "Too scary." So she strung some beads at the kitchen table instead until dinner was ready.
Hopefully this crying before bedtime bit won't last too long. It breaks my heart a little bit every time I have to leave her there in her bed. Caitrin and I have also compromised on leaving her door open. She whimpers for a few seconds once I walk away, but by the time I get to the end of the hall, she's quiet. And it is the last I hear of her until I check on her before I go to bed.
And then, she's my little sleeping angel.
2 comments:
Oh my Gosh. I was so delighted to see and read all the new adventures you are having with your little girl. She is beautiful and you and Jeff are doing a beautiful job with her.Yet she is her own person.Thank you for bringing her into our lives. Nana Barb
I just noticed that you had a blog today and read some of it. I am so careful about tv too. I remember my parents having to ban Scooby Do when we were young because we were always getting afraid. You don't want your kids to be scared, especially if its going to keep them awake at night and you too:)
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